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180 How Well Do You Know Me Questions

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Friends questions

  1. 1. What would I choose for my ideal free afternoon?

    Stay home · Go outdoors · Explore town · See friends

  2. 2. Which option best matches my ideal free afternoon?

    Stay home · Go outdoors · Explore town · See friends

  3. 3. What is my most likely ideal free afternoon?

    Stay home · Go outdoors · Explore town · See friends

  4. 4. If I had to pick, what would my ideal free afternoon be?

    Stay home · Go outdoors · Explore town · See friends

  5. 5. Which answer would I give for my ideal free afternoon?

    Stay home · Go outdoors · Explore town · See friends

  6. 6. What would I select first for my ideal free afternoon?

    Stay home · Go outdoors · Explore town · See friends

  7. 7. Which choice feels most like my ideal free afternoon?

    Stay home · Go outdoors · Explore town · See friends

  8. 8. What do you think I prefer for my ideal free afternoon?

    Stay home · Go outdoors · Explore town · See friends

  9. 9. Can you predict my ideal free afternoon?

    Stay home · Go outdoors · Explore town · See friends

  10. 10. Which of these wins for my ideal free afternoon?

    Stay home · Go outdoors · Explore town · See friends

  11. 11. What would I secretly pick for my ideal free afternoon?

    Stay home · Go outdoors · Explore town · See friends

  12. 12. Which choice describes my ideal free afternoon best?

    Stay home · Go outdoors · Explore town · See friends

  13. 13. What would I choose for my first snack pick?

    Sweet · Salty · Fruit · Spicy

  14. 14. Which option best matches my first snack pick?

    Sweet · Salty · Fruit · Spicy

  15. 15. What is my most likely first snack pick?

    Sweet · Salty · Fruit · Spicy

  16. 16. If I had to pick, what would my first snack pick be?

    Sweet · Salty · Fruit · Spicy

  17. 17. Which answer would I give for my first snack pick?

    Sweet · Salty · Fruit · Spicy

  18. 18. What would I select first for my first snack pick?

    Sweet · Salty · Fruit · Spicy

  19. 19. Which choice feels most like my first snack pick?

    Sweet · Salty · Fruit · Spicy

  20. 20. What do you think I prefer for my first snack pick?

    Sweet · Salty · Fruit · Spicy

  21. 21. Can you predict my first snack pick?

    Sweet · Salty · Fruit · Spicy

  22. 22. Which of these wins for my first snack pick?

    Sweet · Salty · Fruit · Spicy

  23. 23. What would I secretly pick for my first snack pick?

    Sweet · Salty · Fruit · Spicy

  24. 24. Which choice describes my first snack pick best?

    Sweet · Salty · Fruit · Spicy

  25. 25. What would I choose for my group trip role?

    Planner · Navigator · Photographer · Go with the flow

  26. 26. Which option best matches my group trip role?

    Planner · Navigator · Photographer · Go with the flow

  27. 27. What is my most likely group trip role?

    Planner · Navigator · Photographer · Go with the flow

  28. 28. If I had to pick, what would my group trip role be?

    Planner · Navigator · Photographer · Go with the flow

  29. 29. Which answer would I give for my group trip role?

    Planner · Navigator · Photographer · Go with the flow

  30. 30. What would I select first for my group trip role?

    Planner · Navigator · Photographer · Go with the flow

  31. 31. Which choice feels most like my group trip role?

    Planner · Navigator · Photographer · Go with the flow

  32. 32. What do you think I prefer for my group trip role?

    Planner · Navigator · Photographer · Go with the flow

  33. 33. Can you predict my group trip role?

    Planner · Navigator · Photographer · Go with the flow

  34. 34. Which of these wins for my group trip role?

    Planner · Navigator · Photographer · Go with the flow

  35. 35. What would I secretly pick for my group trip role?

    Planner · Navigator · Photographer · Go with the flow

  36. 36. Which choice describes my group trip role best?

    Planner · Navigator · Photographer · Go with the flow

  37. 37. What would I choose for my favorite hangout?

    Cafe · Park · Home · Busy event

  38. 38. Which option best matches my favorite hangout?

    Cafe · Park · Home · Busy event

  39. 39. What is my most likely favorite hangout?

    Cafe · Park · Home · Busy event

  40. 40. If I had to pick, what would my favorite hangout be?

    Cafe · Park · Home · Busy event

  41. 41. Which answer would I give for my favorite hangout?

    Cafe · Park · Home · Busy event

  42. 42. What would I select first for my favorite hangout?

    Cafe · Park · Home · Busy event

  43. 43. Which choice feels most like my favorite hangout?

    Cafe · Park · Home · Busy event

  44. 44. What do you think I prefer for my favorite hangout?

    Cafe · Park · Home · Busy event

  45. 45. Can you predict my favorite hangout?

    Cafe · Park · Home · Busy event

  46. 46. Which of these wins for my favorite hangout?

    Cafe · Park · Home · Busy event

  47. 47. What would I secretly pick for my favorite hangout?

    Cafe · Park · Home · Busy event

  48. 48. Which choice describes my favorite hangout best?

    Cafe · Park · Home · Busy event

  49. 49. What would I choose for my message style?

    Short texts · Long texts · Voice notes · Memes

  50. 50. Which option best matches my message style?

    Short texts · Long texts · Voice notes · Memes

  51. 51. What is my most likely message style?

    Short texts · Long texts · Voice notes · Memes

  52. 52. If I had to pick, what would my message style be?

    Short texts · Long texts · Voice notes · Memes

  53. 53. Which answer would I give for my message style?

    Short texts · Long texts · Voice notes · Memes

  54. 54. What would I select first for my message style?

    Short texts · Long texts · Voice notes · Memes

  55. 55. Which choice feels most like my message style?

    Short texts · Long texts · Voice notes · Memes

  56. 56. What do you think I prefer for my message style?

    Short texts · Long texts · Voice notes · Memes

  57. 57. Can you predict my message style?

    Short texts · Long texts · Voice notes · Memes

  58. 58. Which of these wins for my message style?

    Short texts · Long texts · Voice notes · Memes

  59. 59. What would I secretly pick for my message style?

    Short texts · Long texts · Voice notes · Memes

  60. 60. Which choice describes my message style best?

    Short texts · Long texts · Voice notes · Memes

Couples questions

  1. 1. What would I choose for my perfect date night?

    Cook together · Movie night · Try somewhere new · Take a walk

  2. 2. Which option best matches my perfect date night?

    Cook together · Movie night · Try somewhere new · Take a walk

  3. 3. What is my most likely perfect date night?

    Cook together · Movie night · Try somewhere new · Take a walk

  4. 4. If I had to pick, what would my perfect date night be?

    Cook together · Movie night · Try somewhere new · Take a walk

  5. 5. Which answer would I give for my perfect date night?

    Cook together · Movie night · Try somewhere new · Take a walk

  6. 6. What would I select first for my perfect date night?

    Cook together · Movie night · Try somewhere new · Take a walk

  7. 7. Which choice feels most like my perfect date night?

    Cook together · Movie night · Try somewhere new · Take a walk

  8. 8. What do you think I prefer for my perfect date night?

    Cook together · Movie night · Try somewhere new · Take a walk

  9. 9. Can you predict my perfect date night?

    Cook together · Movie night · Try somewhere new · Take a walk

  10. 10. Which of these wins for my perfect date night?

    Cook together · Movie night · Try somewhere new · Take a walk

  11. 11. What would I secretly pick for my perfect date night?

    Cook together · Movie night · Try somewhere new · Take a walk

  12. 12. Which choice describes my perfect date night best?

    Cook together · Movie night · Try somewhere new · Take a walk

  13. 13. What would I choose for my best small surprise?

    Favorite snack · Kind note · Planned outing · Quiet time

  14. 14. Which option best matches my best small surprise?

    Favorite snack · Kind note · Planned outing · Quiet time

  15. 15. What is my most likely best small surprise?

    Favorite snack · Kind note · Planned outing · Quiet time

  16. 16. If I had to pick, what would my best small surprise be?

    Favorite snack · Kind note · Planned outing · Quiet time

  17. 17. Which answer would I give for my best small surprise?

    Favorite snack · Kind note · Planned outing · Quiet time

  18. 18. What would I select first for my best small surprise?

    Favorite snack · Kind note · Planned outing · Quiet time

  19. 19. Which choice feels most like my best small surprise?

    Favorite snack · Kind note · Planned outing · Quiet time

  20. 20. What do you think I prefer for my best small surprise?

    Favorite snack · Kind note · Planned outing · Quiet time

  21. 21. Can you predict my best small surprise?

    Favorite snack · Kind note · Planned outing · Quiet time

  22. 22. Which of these wins for my best small surprise?

    Favorite snack · Kind note · Planned outing · Quiet time

  23. 23. What would I secretly pick for my best small surprise?

    Favorite snack · Kind note · Planned outing · Quiet time

  24. 24. Which choice describes my best small surprise best?

    Favorite snack · Kind note · Planned outing · Quiet time

  25. 25. What would I choose for my weekend pace?

    Plan it all · One main plan · Decide that morning · Be spontaneous

  26. 26. Which option best matches my weekend pace?

    Plan it all · One main plan · Decide that morning · Be spontaneous

  27. 27. What is my most likely weekend pace?

    Plan it all · One main plan · Decide that morning · Be spontaneous

  28. 28. If I had to pick, what would my weekend pace be?

    Plan it all · One main plan · Decide that morning · Be spontaneous

  29. 29. Which answer would I give for my weekend pace?

    Plan it all · One main plan · Decide that morning · Be spontaneous

  30. 30. What would I select first for my weekend pace?

    Plan it all · One main plan · Decide that morning · Be spontaneous

  31. 31. Which choice feels most like my weekend pace?

    Plan it all · One main plan · Decide that morning · Be spontaneous

  32. 32. What do you think I prefer for my weekend pace?

    Plan it all · One main plan · Decide that morning · Be spontaneous

  33. 33. Can you predict my weekend pace?

    Plan it all · One main plan · Decide that morning · Be spontaneous

  34. 34. Which of these wins for my weekend pace?

    Plan it all · One main plan · Decide that morning · Be spontaneous

  35. 35. What would I secretly pick for my weekend pace?

    Plan it all · One main plan · Decide that morning · Be spontaneous

  36. 36. Which choice describes my weekend pace best?

    Plan it all · One main plan · Decide that morning · Be spontaneous

  37. 37. What would I choose for my shared treat?

    Dessert · Coffee · Takeout · Breakfast

  38. 38. Which option best matches my shared treat?

    Dessert · Coffee · Takeout · Breakfast

  39. 39. What is my most likely shared treat?

    Dessert · Coffee · Takeout · Breakfast

  40. 40. If I had to pick, what would my shared treat be?

    Dessert · Coffee · Takeout · Breakfast

  41. 41. Which answer would I give for my shared treat?

    Dessert · Coffee · Takeout · Breakfast

  42. 42. What would I select first for my shared treat?

    Dessert · Coffee · Takeout · Breakfast

  43. 43. Which choice feels most like my shared treat?

    Dessert · Coffee · Takeout · Breakfast

  44. 44. What do you think I prefer for my shared treat?

    Dessert · Coffee · Takeout · Breakfast

  45. 45. Can you predict my shared treat?

    Dessert · Coffee · Takeout · Breakfast

  46. 46. Which of these wins for my shared treat?

    Dessert · Coffee · Takeout · Breakfast

  47. 47. What would I secretly pick for my shared treat?

    Dessert · Coffee · Takeout · Breakfast

  48. 48. Which choice describes my shared treat best?

    Dessert · Coffee · Takeout · Breakfast

  49. 49. What would I choose for my celebration style?

    Big gathering · Small dinner · Short trip · Cozy night

  50. 50. Which option best matches my celebration style?

    Big gathering · Small dinner · Short trip · Cozy night

  51. 51. What is my most likely celebration style?

    Big gathering · Small dinner · Short trip · Cozy night

  52. 52. If I had to pick, what would my celebration style be?

    Big gathering · Small dinner · Short trip · Cozy night

  53. 53. Which answer would I give for my celebration style?

    Big gathering · Small dinner · Short trip · Cozy night

  54. 54. What would I select first for my celebration style?

    Big gathering · Small dinner · Short trip · Cozy night

  55. 55. Which choice feels most like my celebration style?

    Big gathering · Small dinner · Short trip · Cozy night

  56. 56. What do you think I prefer for my celebration style?

    Big gathering · Small dinner · Short trip · Cozy night

  57. 57. Can you predict my celebration style?

    Big gathering · Small dinner · Short trip · Cozy night

  58. 58. Which of these wins for my celebration style?

    Big gathering · Small dinner · Short trip · Cozy night

  59. 59. What would I secretly pick for my celebration style?

    Big gathering · Small dinner · Short trip · Cozy night

  60. 60. Which choice describes my celebration style best?

    Big gathering · Small dinner · Short trip · Cozy night

Family questions

  1. 1. What would I choose for my family game pick?

    Cards · Trivia · Charades · Word game

  2. 2. Which option best matches my family game pick?

    Cards · Trivia · Charades · Word game

  3. 3. What is my most likely family game pick?

    Cards · Trivia · Charades · Word game

  4. 4. If I had to pick, what would my family game pick be?

    Cards · Trivia · Charades · Word game

  5. 5. Which answer would I give for my family game pick?

    Cards · Trivia · Charades · Word game

  6. 6. What would I select first for my family game pick?

    Cards · Trivia · Charades · Word game

  7. 7. Which choice feels most like my family game pick?

    Cards · Trivia · Charades · Word game

  8. 8. What do you think I prefer for my family game pick?

    Cards · Trivia · Charades · Word game

  9. 9. Can you predict my family game pick?

    Cards · Trivia · Charades · Word game

  10. 10. Which of these wins for my family game pick?

    Cards · Trivia · Charades · Word game

  11. 11. What would I secretly pick for my family game pick?

    Cards · Trivia · Charades · Word game

  12. 12. Which choice describes my family game pick best?

    Cards · Trivia · Charades · Word game

  13. 13. What would I choose for my holiday job?

    Cook · Decorate · Plan · Clean up

  14. 14. Which option best matches my holiday job?

    Cook · Decorate · Plan · Clean up

  15. 15. What is my most likely holiday job?

    Cook · Decorate · Plan · Clean up

  16. 16. If I had to pick, what would my holiday job be?

    Cook · Decorate · Plan · Clean up

  17. 17. Which answer would I give for my holiday job?

    Cook · Decorate · Plan · Clean up

  18. 18. What would I select first for my holiday job?

    Cook · Decorate · Plan · Clean up

  19. 19. Which choice feels most like my holiday job?

    Cook · Decorate · Plan · Clean up

  20. 20. What do you think I prefer for my holiday job?

    Cook · Decorate · Plan · Clean up

  21. 21. Can you predict my holiday job?

    Cook · Decorate · Plan · Clean up

  22. 22. Which of these wins for my holiday job?

    Cook · Decorate · Plan · Clean up

  23. 23. What would I secretly pick for my holiday job?

    Cook · Decorate · Plan · Clean up

  24. 24. Which choice describes my holiday job best?

    Cook · Decorate · Plan · Clean up

  25. 25. What would I choose for my Sunday activity?

    Big meal · Outdoor time · Movie · Visit relatives

  26. 26. Which option best matches my Sunday activity?

    Big meal · Outdoor time · Movie · Visit relatives

  27. 27. What is my most likely Sunday activity?

    Big meal · Outdoor time · Movie · Visit relatives

  28. 28. If I had to pick, what would my Sunday activity be?

    Big meal · Outdoor time · Movie · Visit relatives

  29. 29. Which answer would I give for my Sunday activity?

    Big meal · Outdoor time · Movie · Visit relatives

  30. 30. What would I select first for my Sunday activity?

    Big meal · Outdoor time · Movie · Visit relatives

  31. 31. Which choice feels most like my Sunday activity?

    Big meal · Outdoor time · Movie · Visit relatives

  32. 32. What do you think I prefer for my Sunday activity?

    Big meal · Outdoor time · Movie · Visit relatives

  33. 33. Can you predict my Sunday activity?

    Big meal · Outdoor time · Movie · Visit relatives

  34. 34. Which of these wins for my Sunday activity?

    Big meal · Outdoor time · Movie · Visit relatives

  35. 35. What would I secretly pick for my Sunday activity?

    Big meal · Outdoor time · Movie · Visit relatives

  36. 36. Which choice describes my Sunday activity best?

    Big meal · Outdoor time · Movie · Visit relatives

  37. 37. What would I choose for my photo habit?

    Take every photo · Pose happily · Avoid camera · Make funny faces

  38. 38. Which option best matches my photo habit?

    Take every photo · Pose happily · Avoid camera · Make funny faces

  39. 39. What is my most likely photo habit?

    Take every photo · Pose happily · Avoid camera · Make funny faces

  40. 40. If I had to pick, what would my photo habit be?

    Take every photo · Pose happily · Avoid camera · Make funny faces

  41. 41. Which answer would I give for my photo habit?

    Take every photo · Pose happily · Avoid camera · Make funny faces

  42. 42. What would I select first for my photo habit?

    Take every photo · Pose happily · Avoid camera · Make funny faces

  43. 43. Which choice feels most like my photo habit?

    Take every photo · Pose happily · Avoid camera · Make funny faces

  44. 44. What do you think I prefer for my photo habit?

    Take every photo · Pose happily · Avoid camera · Make funny faces

  45. 45. Can you predict my photo habit?

    Take every photo · Pose happily · Avoid camera · Make funny faces

  46. 46. Which of these wins for my photo habit?

    Take every photo · Pose happily · Avoid camera · Make funny faces

  47. 47. What would I secretly pick for my photo habit?

    Take every photo · Pose happily · Avoid camera · Make funny faces

  48. 48. Which choice describes my photo habit best?

    Take every photo · Pose happily · Avoid camera · Make funny faces

  49. 49. What would I choose for my road trip choice?

    Music · Podcasts · Games · Quiet

  50. 50. Which option best matches my road trip choice?

    Music · Podcasts · Games · Quiet

  51. 51. What is my most likely road trip choice?

    Music · Podcasts · Games · Quiet

  52. 52. If I had to pick, what would my road trip choice be?

    Music · Podcasts · Games · Quiet

  53. 53. Which answer would I give for my road trip choice?

    Music · Podcasts · Games · Quiet

  54. 54. What would I select first for my road trip choice?

    Music · Podcasts · Games · Quiet

  55. 55. Which choice feels most like my road trip choice?

    Music · Podcasts · Games · Quiet

  56. 56. What do you think I prefer for my road trip choice?

    Music · Podcasts · Games · Quiet

  57. 57. Can you predict my road trip choice?

    Music · Podcasts · Games · Quiet

  58. 58. Which of these wins for my road trip choice?

    Music · Podcasts · Games · Quiet

  59. 59. What would I secretly pick for my road trip choice?

    Music · Podcasts · Games · Quiet

  60. 60. Which choice describes my road trip choice best?

    Music · Podcasts · Games · Quiet

How to choose good questions

Mix easy preference questions with a few memory or habit questions. Keep every option plausible, avoid sensitive personal information, and never use a score as a relationship diagnosis. Five questions per person keeps a large group moving; ten works best for couples or small groups.